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What do you have the hardest time accepting?

Posted on Jan 17th, 2009 by michaelsits : in spite of myself michaelsits
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 17, 2009:

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Nicole : wakingdreamer
about 1 hour later
Nicole said

really, Michael? harder than anything else?

michaelsits : in spite of myself
about 2 hours later
michaelsits said

Isn’t everything else just an expression of our lack of acceptance of self?

Alluvja :  Love In Action
about 3 hours later
Alluvja said

Interesting and honest answer to the daily question Michael. I guess it’s like that for most of us, eventhough we might be either unaware of it or not wanting to admit it.

But then if …..

Isn’t everything else just an expression of our lack of acceptance of self”

what do we really have to lose ….one wonders.



Samme : Prince of Rainbows<3
about 8 hours later
Samme said

I accept you.  : )

quietlaughter : .
about 13 hours later
quietlaughter said

darn it - you took my answer.

Nicole : wakingdreamer
about 23 hours later
Nicole said

I never thought of it that way, Michael. Hmm! Very insightful.

michaelsits : in spite of myself
1 day later
michaelsits said

Thanks alluvja, samme, leigh and nicole
Are y’all trying to tell me something here? If i have a blog of less then two syllables you will comment?

I was thinking about this earlier today.
everyone seems real eager to accept and support the person that gets hit by the drunk driver.  But are they the ones that need the greatest attention?  I thik not, i think those who commit the crimes and abuse others are the most need of attention and support.  The ones who are on the receiveing end will always get it but that will not facilitate change.  It is those that have fallen and hurt our society the most that need to be accepted: the prostitutes, addict, drunks, sex offenders, wife beaters, ruanways, thieves, those who cheat on their partner/spouses.  We tend to take the easy way out and accpet those they harm.

Folks liek to talk a good game about acceptance na inclusion but it is conditional to acting the way we think we shoudl be acting.  How many folks accepot and invite child molesters into their home?  How often do you here of families taking in  rapists and murderers?  rarely. It is the ones in most need for acceptance that receive the least.  Would you invite George W bush to your house for dinner?  The guy who rapes the chearleader of the high school footbal team?  The woman who cheated on her husband the Pastor at the Church with a boy from the youth group?

if we are going to talk about aceptance, we have to get real and include those who we think are the problem, not just those who fit into our frame of refeerence and ideal society.

It all comes back to acceptance of self.  if i really accept who i am, which i do not, then how coudl we judge another?  Is it possible to not aac[et evryone regardless of who and what they are if we genuinely accept who we are?  How is it possible to hate others if we have no hate in ourselves?  How can we treat others disrespectfully is how we have total respect for ourselves?

What is the hardest for me to accept?  me.

Peace and love,
michael- the new one syllable blogger who comments longer than most blogs

Nicole : wakingdreamer
2 days later
Nicole said

yes, you have gone to the heart of the matter, michael. Sometimes, one word can say it all, but sometimes we need help unpacking what that one word really means in this context, and you’ve done a beautiful job. Thank you, brother.

Samme : Prince of Rainbows<3
2 days later
Samme said

or a silence can say it all.  : )

michaelsits : in spite of myself
2 days later
michaelsits said

yes samme, silence does cover a  lot, if not all the territory.  i was attending a retreat at The Abbey of Gethsemane and there were little signs all over and especially in the dining hall:

“silence i spoken here”

And amongst the monks and others, it was spoken loudly.

Peace
michael

michaelsits : in spite of myself
2 days later
michaelsits said

Thanks Sister nicole.  I seemed to need to say something i wasn’t willing to with the original question.  But my answer is still:
me.

Peace,
michael

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