diversity
October 2008 
What does independence mean to you?
Posted on Jul 4th, 2008
by 
michaelsits
michaelsits
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for July 04, 2008:
Independence and freedom may seem similar and connected but not always certain that is true.
I am thinking about diversity and privilege. I find it easy for white, middle class folks to talk about independence and freedom as "siblings" but i have known many folks that are very independent but do not enjoy the same freedoms that white folks do. White folks go shopping in a mall and can do so without being followed. can drive their cars at night without being stopped for "driving while Black". they can interview for a job without their color being the most distinguishing factor. Can go to college without every white person questioning if they got in because of affirmative action, which for the record has aided an advanced white middle class women more than all the people of color collectively.
So no, i do not think independence and freedom are connected, except for those who already experience freedom. I would write more but i am getting fired up and don't want to turn this into a rant any more so than i have already.
Peace, michael
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is it any comfort that my sister got into med school at the age of 46? I think that's positive… hugs
Yes Nicole it is comforting to know anybody can go back and follow their dreams. There is much positive, this was just my reaction at that moment. today i wold write it differently and probably different again tomorrow if i chose.
good to hear you're feeling better.
Between packing and reflecting on issues from the blog “being Offensive”, i was a little well, offensive,
i thought you were very moderate in those responses… but perhaps you weren't quite as calm in your feelings and reflections?
I felt no need to express my feelings since that is not what we were speaking about, and wanted to seize the opportunity to learn and grow. But, along with some other things, it is on my mind. Isn't that what we we are trying to do as a community?
yes, that is very mindful and considerate of you. i admire that
Thank you Nivole but i didn't write it to get a compliment, i was just sharing the why.
no, i know you didn't, i was just sharing the compliment anyway :)